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"What Should We Do?": The Common Concerns couples seek couples therapy

"What Should We Do?": The Common Concerns couples seek couples therapy

We hear many stories of marriages ending in divorce and people staying in unhappy marriages or partnerships, and we find ourselves wondering, “what happened? Why do people decide to get divorced or go their separate ways after many years of being together? Couples grieve the loss of the marriage or the partnership they thought they would have and are forced to embrace a new reality. Couples therapy can be the last resort or the last strand of hope to make things work. This blog post, written by Space Between Counseling Services, located in Baltimore, Maryland, explores the common concerns couples reach out for support and seek couples therapy.

Brainspotting vs. EMDR | Best Trauma Treatment?

Brainspotting vs. EMDR | Best Trauma Treatment?

There are some issues that we cannot simply talk ourselves out of. The part of our brain that thinks in verbal language and uses logic to solve problems is distinct from the area of our brain where we process emotions. This means that in order to move past deep-seated trauma and other difficult emotional wounds, we must intervene on the physical and emotional subcortical level as well as on the logical, neocortical level.

Brainspotting (BSP) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy both facilitate emotional processing and help us to see ourselves, others, and the world around us in a new light. Read on to learn more about both modalities and which one may be right for you.

Embracing Intersectionality: A Therapeutic Exploration of Audre Lorde's "The Black Unicorn"

Embracing Intersectionality: A Therapeutic Exploration of Audre Lorde's "The Black Unicorn"

Have you ever labeled yourself as the “black sheep” of your family, workplace, or somewhere where you’re “supposed” to naturally belong? The Black Unicorn highlights how intersectionality is an ongoing process that requires individuals to navigate and balance the multiple dimensions of their identity. Society often places marginalized individuals where they have to prove their worthiness, which can be a burdensome and exhausting experience. This expectation disregards the fullness of their experiences and reduces their identities to a single narrative, overshadowing their resilience, joy, and other aspects of their lives. This blog post, written by Susan Stork, located in Baltimore, Maryland, explores the four main qualities of a black unicorn and how we can harness our individuality into our superpower.

Journaling to Increase Self-Motivation: Tips From Motivational Interviewing

Journaling to Increase Self-Motivation: Tips From Motivational Interviewing

As the seasons change and we head towards Spring, you may find yourself reflecting on the goals and intentions that you had set for this new year. Some might have worked, and some might not have. Change is hard and uncomfortable, and at times, overwhelming. This blog post, written by Sehar Palla, located in Baltimore, Maryland, highlights motivational interviewing techniques that help us understand our feelings about change, increase motivation, and create a plan that works for us.

Overcoming the Fear of Criticism: A Guide to Personal Growth

Overcoming the Fear of Criticism: A Guide to Personal Growth

Fear of criticism is a common fear that affects many people, but it can also be a major roadblock to growth and new experiences. This blog post, written by Sehar Palla, located in Baltimore, Maryland, explores some of the powerful reframes that helped shift her perspective on criticism.

“Celebrating Women Who Tell Our Stories.”

“Celebrating Women Who Tell Our Stories.”

The month of March reflects the overlooked contributions of women and continues spreading awareness of the injustices and discrimination women encounter. This blog post, written by Brittany Spencer, LCPC, located in Baltimore, Maryland, highlights the strength of being a woman and ways to support your female peers and highlight their acknowledgment.

Three Things to Remember if you’re New to Therapy

Three Things to Remember if you’re New to Therapy

If you’ve just begun your journey into healing with the help of a therapist. It’s possible that you felt relief, finally being able to share troubles. You might have felt overwhelmed, as many emotions bubbled up to the surface. Maybe you were nervous going into it, not knowing what to expect. All of these feelings (or none of these feelings) are normal and to be expected when coming into this type of space. In this blog post, Amber Tunney explores three things to remember if you’re new to therapy.

Understanding Implicit Bias and Its Impact on Our Lives

Understanding Implicit Bias and Its Impact on Our Lives

Implicit bias is a universal experience that shapes our worldview. So much that happens in our brains happens without our conscious awareness. The negative assumptions we make about certain types of people impact our interactions, decisions, and behaviors and, frankly, make our world much smaller. In this blog post, Amber Tunney explores what implicit bias is, how it happens, its importance in our lives, and ways we can support ourselves and others when dealing with implicit biases.

Neuroception – Our Subconscious Ability to Detect Threats, Risks, & Safety: Then and Now

Neuroception – Our Subconscious Ability to Detect Threats, Risks, & Safety: Then and Now

Dr. Stephen Porges has coined the term “neuroception”, which describes how our neural circuits distinguish whether stimuli are safe or dangerous. While this phenomemon is innate and serves to protect us, sometimes traumatic experiences result in faulty neuroception - which causes individuals to perceive a situation to be harmful, even if there is no presence of a threat. This post explores the implications of polyvagal theory, stress responses, and neuroception.